Tracey Wakefield

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  • Living in tension and the in-between places

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    I have lived in the in-between most of my life. My early childhood was chaotic; I experienced what I now feel comfortable labelling as ‘chronic instability’. I have come to realise that this has shaped my relationship with certainty. I have also come to realise that I struggle to see life in black and white.…

  • Letting Someone Else In: The Limits of Self-Supervision 

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    “You seem to do a lot of self-supervision” This is a comment I got from my first clinical supervisor. At the time, I took it as a compliment. Yes, I’m really good at talking to myself, and I’m very smart, an exemplary student counsellor, so self-reliant that I don’t even need help processing my practice.…

  • Waiting Mode

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    My ADHD assessment appointment was pushed out by two weeks due to staff sickness. Externally, I was understanding; internally, I was spiralling. Two more weeks of fighting with myself, fighting the urge to create and rehearse a script of what I would say. Fearful thoughts oscillating between, “What if they say I’m fine? What if…

  • What is Supervision?

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    Working in helping professions can be rewarding, challenging, complex, and at times overwhelming. Supervision provides a regular space to pause, reflect, and make sense of what is happening in your professional life. It is a confidential partnership that supports professional development, reflective practice, wellbeing, and effective decision-making. Whether you are navigating challenges, celebrating successes, exploring…

  • “I don’t have anything to talk about”

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    When someone says, “I don’t have anything to talk about“ Throughout my career, I have noticed that there can be resistance to being told to go to supervision. With a common response being “I don’t have anything to talk about.” Often this statement comes from people who haven’t engaged in supervision before and don’t know…

  • Am I Disabled?

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    This is a question I have struggled with for years. By definition, yes. The United Nations Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (UNCRPD) defines persons with disabilities as: “…those who have long-term physical, mental, intellectual or sensory impairments which in interaction with various barriers may hinder their full and effective participation in society…